Follow these 11 commandments for being a Single, Sexy and Successful Mom:Plan as much as you can: Set a Big Hairy Audacious Goal (BHAG) for selfBecome financially independent and secure Get healthy and take care of yourself: You cannot afford to fall sickInstill a sense of responsibility and gratitude in your child Forgive: It is not worth carrying the emotional burdenNever ever feel guilty: You are doing it right and you are doing it the bestBecome a friend to your child: Being a mom or a dad is over-hyped, try becoming his confidantTake risks: There's nothing worse in life than being ordinaryDon’t overprotect your child: Prepare your child to face the real world with confidenceCreate a support group of diverse and inspirational individuals: Remember, girls compete but women empower each otherSmile so much that the world is envious of your stature! olmdesk@outlookindia.com